Guide to the Best Small Breed Dogs for Kids

By Janice Jones   |Updated 08-21-2023

Ever wonder what a list of the best small breed dogs for kids would look like?  Every dog site on the web seems to have their favorite 10 best breeds for children, many of which are very large breed dogs. 

Would it surprise you to know that in my opinion the list of best breeds for children far exceeds those that make it onto these short lists and many are small breed dogs?

How to Choose the Best Small Breed Dogs for Kids

Choosing the Best Small Dog Breeds for Children:  The Breed Profile

It would be nice to say that all members of a breed are the same, but that is wishful thinking.  We can, however look at the breed and determine some general traits that are common in many if not most dogs belonging to that breed.  

Some breeds are more suited to family life for
various reasons.  Individual breeds do share characteristics in terms
of temperament and personality through years of selective breeding for
certain characteristics. 

Some breeds are known to be somewhat
high strung and wary of strangers.  If you consider breed only, you
might rule out the Pomeranian, Brussels Griffon, and Chihuahua due to these
characteristics.

Another breed characteristic that
might rule out some dogs is their unwillingness to love everyone in the
family.  Some breeds tend to attach themselves to one person which is
usually the primary caregiver, you. 

Miniature Pinscher and Pomeranian
are good examples of one-person fur babies.

Train-ability is another factor to consider and should not be confused
with intelligent.  Some small dog breeds are considered harder to train
than others. 

Housebreaking is a real issue in some breeds which could be
a problem if you have an infant or toddler who spend a great deal of time on
the floor. 

The Bichon and Shih Tzu is a couple of the many small breed
dogs that are difficult to housebreak. 

Patience is not a trait that one usually associates with a small
breed dog.  The English Bulldog is your quintessential patient dog. 

Companion dogs that have been bred for centuries to be the “pampered child” may
not have it in them to be patient with a human child.  Breeds that are
more tolerant or easy going may be more patient.

Any patient dog should easily deserve to be on the  list of best small dog breeds for kids.

Miniature Goldendoodles

Miniature Goldendoodles stand out as an example of the best small breed dogs for kids. With their endearing blend of Golden Retriever
and Poodle traits, these charming crossbreeds effortlessly win over families
seeking a gentle and affectionate companion for their children.

Their patient
and friendly demeanor and inherent loyalty ensure a harmonious relationship
with kids of all ages.

What sets Miniature Goldendoodles apart is their adaptability
– requiring just 30 to 60 minutes of daily exercise, these furry pals
seamlessly integrate into busy family schedules, ensuring both outdoor vitality
and indoor tranquility. 

Furthermore, their hypoallergenic coats, requiring
weekly brushing and professional grooming every 6 to 8 weeks, make them an
ideal choice for families with allergic youngsters. 

In small breed dogs
that blend seamlessly with kids’ lives, Miniature
Goldendoodles unquestionably take the lead, offering a delightful addition
to any family dynamic.

Best Small Breed Dogs for Kids:
The Individual Dog

When it comes to the dog, one must
not only look at breed but also the individual dog. The dog is the sum total of
his genetics and environment. 

Some dogs should never be bred because they
have inborn temperament issues that can be passed onto the offspring. 

The environment side of the equation
involves everything that the dog has encountered since he was conceived in the womb, birth, early weeks, his
socialization prior to arriving at your home and then what happens after he
arrives.

A puppy from a very reputable
breeder who has excellent bloodlines and who provides extensive socialization
is going to fare better with your children than the puppy with a questionable
background and little socialization even if both are members of the same
breed. 

Consider a dog from a nice clean pet store.  Cute and fluffy, but where did that dog originate.  Most pet stores will tell you that the pup came from a local breeder. 

No reputable breeder would ever deal with a pet store, so it is likely that the pup was trucked in from a large commercial breeding facility (possibly a puppy mill. 

So even if the breed falls into our list of best small breed dogs for kids, that individual dog just might not make the grade.

If you are considering an adult dog
or even an adolescent, his life prior to meeting you will be longer with more
diverse experiences, good and bad and will have an even greater bearing on how
well the child – dog relationship develops.

Of course, what happens after the
puppy arrives depends on you and the time you devote to training the puppy and
the amount of socialization you are willing to do.  The more the
better! 

A well-socialized trained dog is going to do better with children
regardless of the breed.

The Best Small Breed Dogs for Kids and the Child’s Ability to Follow Directions

Speaking of training, we should
mention the training (education) that goes along with dog ownership.  No
child should be expected to know how to handle a dog if they have never had
one. 

That perfect child—dog bond develops
as the child learns how to handle the dog appropriately.  Not only does
the dog require training, but also the child needs to learn how to treat the
dog in a way that enhances the relationship.

Your child also needs to learn that
there are things that are OK to do with the dog and those that are not. 
You might consider yourself the pack leader, but your child should be taught to
be the mini pack leader.  This is no
small task, I might add. 

If you have a very active toddler
and an energetic dog, it could be match made in heaven, but beware; it could go
in just the opposite direction.  Children
must understand that they are always above the dog on the social
hierarchy. 

When considering dog training, it is
important to include children in the process so they learn how to properly give
commands and respond to the dog in appropriate ways.

Best Small Breed Dogs for Kids and The Child’s Personality

Finally, the personalities and
temperament of the children should also be taken into consideration.  A
breed that complements the temperament of your child might make the perfect
match.  

No dog deserves rough treatment by a
child and small dogs especially need to be supervised around very small
children. 

A calm quiet child is likely to do better around a dog with
similar temperament traits.  Very active children will want a dog that
enjoys active play. 

Some breeds are more active than others are so that
should be a consideration when choosing the right dog. Choosing the best small breed dogs for kids gets easier when you match or compliment personality traits of the child and the dog.

Now let us look at those personality
traits of dogs that make the best breeds for children. 

As I thought about
all those wonderful doggie qualities, I came up with the following list of 15
adjectives that describe the perfect dog for a young child.  I am sure the
list it is not complete:

Best Small Dog Breeds for Kids:  Our Required Traits

As I looked through the long list of
purebred small breed dogs, there were some that seemed to have more of these
traits than others.  These child friendly traits helped develop this
list. 

There are some dogs that belong to these
breeds that should never be around children and there are some breeds not
mentioned on this list that would make fine family pets. 

Again, I must return to my first
premise in that it is not so much the breed as the other factors combined that
make the perfect family dog.

Traits of dogs that make the best small dog breeds for Kids include:

Best Small Breed Dogs for Kids

We’ve analyzed every breed on this site to determine which ones are great, which ones are satisfactory and ones that may not work. 

Here is our list of best small breed dogs for kids.

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